Last week, I shared a letter to my future self — a personal vision built around the pillars that matter most: family, health, purpose, and presence. It was a way to reflect on where I’m headed and how I hope to get there, one intentional day at a time.
Now, it’s Peter’s turn.
In this post, Peter shares his own five-year letter — a thoughtful, powerful look into the life he’s building with intention. From deep relationships to business growth, from fatherhood to personal health, this letter lays out a roadmap grounded in values and action.
We hope reading this inspires you to reflect on your own path, and maybe even write a letter to your future self, too. Enjoy...
Dear Future Me,
This is where you're headed—don’t lose sight of it.
In five years, your life is rooted in purpose, balance, and connection. Socially, you’ve made space for what matters most. You regularly make time for three deep, trusted relationships—the kind where nothing is off-limits, where you are truly seen and supported, and where you offer the same in return. These bonds keep you grounded.
Your work life is thriving, but no longer all-consuming. You cap your week at 50 hours, with 20 of those devoted to client care—something you still love deeply. The rest is smartly delegated to a capable, trusted team that rises to the challenges you once carried alone. You lead with vision, not exhaustion.
You’ve expanded to three distinct Whole Health Solutions locations, each serving its own market with excellence. Each location delivers the full spectrum of care: physical therapy, personal training, strength & conditioning, health coaching, and recovery services. You’ve built more than a business—you’ve built a movement. Your voice in the field has grown. You’ve created and launched your own health coaching course, and you offer seminars that educate, empower, and connect. You’re not just working in health—you’re shaping its future.
Financially, you and Stacey are strong. You're both maxing out your 401(k)s, saving for the future, and still enjoying the present. You take two vacations each year—real breaks, time to reset and explore. You’ve found the rhythm between planning for tomorrow and fully living today.
Your kids—Evan and Peyton—are both driving, independent, and carving their own paths. Your relationship with them is built on shared interest and intentional time. Maybe you and Evan are training Jiu Jitsu together, lifting, jet skiing, and watching movies. With Peyton, you’re lifting too, jet skiing, and supporting her curiosity in personal training and physical therapy. You’re not just a dad—you’re a mentor, a role model, and a partner in their growth.
Your connection with Stacey is strong and steady. You make time to be together—on the trails, on the water, in the gym, and in life. She may even be part of your professional world as a health coach. You support each other not just as spouses, but as teammates.
You’ve also maintained your commitment to extended family—your brothers, your mom, your nieces and nephews. You see them regularly, a few times each month, and you’re present when it counts.
Physically, nothing has changed—and that’s the point. You're still around 200 lbs with a healthy, strong body composition. You train with intention: strength, cardio (steady and interval), mobility, stability, and power. You eat real, whole foods. You sleep 8 hours a night. You honor your body, your health, your longevity.
This is the life you’re building. It’s not perfect, but it’s real, meaningful, and deeply aligned with who you are and what you value.
Don’t forget this vision. Keep showing up, one day at a time.
—Yourself